Olga Pankova/Getty ImagesI was raised to be a nice girl, the good girl. The perfect storm of cultural conditioning, conservative Christian upbringing, and being the eldest daughter. Cue Taylor Swift. Even as a child I was a people pleaser, trying to make sure those around me were happy (and happy with me). This especially took place in my home, where, as I grew older, I constantly felt like I was walking on eggshells, trying to avoid causing conflict and often staying quiet even when things were bothering me.Adebisi Gbadamosi, licensed therapist and the founder of Mindful Blooms Counseling, sa...