Emma Chao/Scary Mommy; GettyI have 10 alarms set on my phone right now. No exaggeration. They are staggered, mostly across the morning, little reminders to make sure I hit different checkpoints during my day. Wake up? Check. Respond to outstanding emails? Check check. And on and on. If you saw them, you’d probably think I was very organized.I don’t really think of myself as organized, though. It’s more like I’ve built an elaborate framework to make sure everything doesn’t come tumbling down around me.For as long as I can remember, my brain has run at roughly a million miles an hour. There is n...