Catherine Falls Commercial/Moment/Getty ImagesThe first time I asked my children if they ever wanted kids, all three of them shook their heads at the same time. To be fair, we were at a restaurant and a toddler was screaming their head off. I laughed thinking that was the reason and I should’ve picked a better time to ask them such a big question. Also, they were teenagers. I guess most people really don’t really know as a teenager if you want kids or not.But I did. My goal was to graduate high school, go to college, become a writer, get married and have kids. I was laser focused. I didn’t wai...