kamisoka/E+/Getty ImagesThe first time I had sex I was 20 years old, which was old enough to know first times usually don’t feel that great, so I didn’t get my hopes up. It wasn’t a shock when I didn’t orgasm; it’ll probably take some time to figure out what works for me, I reasoned, and I tried to focus on learning what those things were. Besides, I had waited until I was in a relationship with someone I really liked — I decided to bask in how good that felt, how not-nervous I’d been. Surely it would all come together with time.Months spilled into years and that boyfriend moved away, but sex...
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