This Mom's Back-To-School Reminder Will Actually Help Your Kid Open Up About Their Day

miodrag ignjatovic/E+/Getty ImagesOn my daughter’s first day of school, I could not wait to pick her up. I wanted to hear all about her day. Who did she sit next to at lunch? Did she make any new friends? What was her classroom like? Does she like her teacher? I had a million questions for her, and then... I saw a TikTok video that totally changed my entire plan for after-school pick up.Caley Kukla, a child development specialist, early interventionist, and parent coach, reminded me that questions are not connections. I need to chill with the third degree right after I pick my daughter up from