I Judge Every Man I Date Based On How They Talk About Their Ex-Wife

Daniel Lozano Gonzalez/Moment/Getty ImagesIt happened again: Another date and another man leading with, “My ex-wife is crazy, and I was completely blindsided when she left and she’s so unreasonable.”You think I’d learn, brace myself even, but the truth is my heart sinks every time I hear this because that one sentence says so much.Before I explain, let me say, I’m not so naïve as to think, Well, if it didn’t work with the mother of your children, then it won’t work with me.After all, I am a divorced woman who couldn’t make it work with my ex-husband. But what they are actually saying to me, wi