Here’s How To Tell If Someone Is Using Weaponized Incompetence

PhotoAlto/Eric Audras/Getty ImagesWeaponized incompetence is sort of a household term at this point, as it should be — it’s time that all partners step up and pull their weight when it comes to domestic labor. You’d think that the more well-known it becomes, the less likely it’d be for men (the demo usually found guilty of weaponizing incompetence, sorry) to attempt it anymore. It’s also true that boys and girls are socialized and raised differently, even in the same families. It’s possible your partner truly wasn’t taught how to manage a household well. So, here’s how to tell if someone is us